Let me help you! Research has shown that a mother with a record of miscarriages carries with her, either consciously or subconsciously, various psychological effects. The most obvious one is the feeling of not being able to ever conceive and have children again. This feeling usually leads to low self-esteem especially if she feels that her family members and her neighbours might look down on her. This in turn will develop into stress and might lead to depression and mental problems. There is an alarming rise in cases of mothers who are unable to conceive trying to steal new-born babies from others and claiming to be theirs. In order to solve this type of social problem, society should commit to giving social and emotional support to the family, especially to the mother. Support such as providing counseling will help to elevate these problems so that women who are infertile can learn to accept and not get angry with things in life. I am not a medical doctor; as such, so I cannot give my opinion on this topic from a medical point of view. But as a qigong cum feng shui master I would like to share with my readers some important points which I think could be useful for those who face the problem of miscarriages. According to traditional Chinese beliefs, miscarriage is due to the cold womb of the mother but there are ways to warm the mothers womb. One of the ways is to take up qigong exercises which eventually will make the womb conducive to conceiving. This helps to explain why so many housewives take up various qigong classes such as, weitangong, zenengchigong, hesiangong, taichi18steps,Yeohs taichi, Teohs taichi and others. Although taking up qigong proves to be effective, it takes time. Generally, it will take up to three to four years to see the results. If you are busy and have no time for qigong practice, then I would like to recommend that you seek the advice of a feng shui master. This is because according to feng shui, the womb is analogy to the house where the mother lives. From the perspective of bagua or trigam, the womb is symbolized by the KUN kua. Adjustment on this kua will help to enhance the condition of the womb and will create conducive environment for the fetus. Genuine feng shui master who has knowledge in this field could easily help you to solve your problem. A word of caution is that not all feng shui masters are able to provide services in this field because it involves other related kua like the personal kua of the mother, the house and the location of the yen nen in the house. Lastly, let me quote the saying of Etienne De Grefet which I take as my guidance in life: I expect to pass this way but once;
Any good therefore that I can do,
Or any kindness that I can show to my fellow creature,
Let me do it now, let me not defer or neglect it,
For I shall not pass this way again. My vision is, let all mothers in this universe have a chance to cradle their own child after their marriage and may I wish that all mothers who wish to conceive are able to do so? Master Lim of www.getting-pregnant-naturally.com |
